Pulse Check
I encourage all the couples I work with to regularly take a pulse of their sex life. Here are a few questions to get you started:
1) What's going well?
2) What are you enjoying about yourself as a sexual person?
3) What are you enjoying about your partner as a sexual person?
4) What's missing and what role am I playing in this?
5) What's a step I can take to add something new?
Questions? Suggestions? Let me know!