Something to explore in therapy...

“When we look deeper at the body’s response to love & sexual feelings, we find that things get a bit complicated. Your response has to do with whether or not you learned to separate emotional attachment from sex, how secure or insecure you feel, how you deal with stress in a relationship, how comfortable you are in your own body, how playful you are about anything, how well informed you are about sex, and how skillful you are as a lover.”

- Dr. Stella Resnick (from The Heart of Desire)