Name three things that are important to you as a sexual person...
To feel more alive?
To connect with your partner?
To live out your fantasies?
To be more in touch with pleasure?
To be dominated?
To express yourself?
To feel freedom?
To get inside your body?
To be loved?
To be held?
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If you are in a partnership, does your partner know these things? Do you have the freedom to communicate your desires?
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*Inquiry Inspired by sex therapist, Dr. Tammy Nelson, in The New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity*
Sexual Communication
When something doesn't feel good during sex, do you have the freedom to let your partner know?
Is it a normal part of your sex life to say, 'A little to the left, a little to the right.' or 'Faster would feel great.'
Good & kind communication is crucial for good sex. Having difficulty communicating to your partner during sex? Reach out for help today.
The Love-Lust Dilemma
"Once a sexual interest becomes a potential or real mate, there is a strong tendency to begin to automatically transfer unresolved issues from your original family to the “new family figure.” When you do, your body begins a programmed response of inhibiting sexual energy toward that person.
This is the underlying factor that turns people off sexually to someone they love or care for. It is an involuntary reflexive shutting down of sexual feelings as the emotional attachment to that person grows."
-Dr. Stella Resnick from Heart of Desire